There has been a lot going on the last month or so . . . 2 weddings, a funeral, baby showers, day-to-day life . . . ; hence, my lack of posting. The pregnancy has been progressing beautifully and we are getting oh-so-excited to meet our baby! Hopefully, he will be like his parents and be punctual, but I already have a feeling this baby is going to be Mr. Independent and do things his way. So, we shall see!
Unfortunately, my Grandpa Hank (who I wrote about
here) passed away a few weeks ago. The lung cancer he had 5 years ago came back and spread to his brain. He went downhill very fast and it was terrible to watch him suffer. I will miss him so much and find it especially hard that the baby he was so excited about will never get to meet him (this side of Heaven). But, I thank God that he is now out of his misery. Numerous people, who never met Grandpa, have said, “He sounds like a man who lived life to the fullest.” And that he did. May you rest in peace, Grandpa . . . I love you!

We are now 10 weeks into our Bradley class. At the beginning, a 12 week course on labor and delivery seemed a bit daunting and, honestly, a little much. (As numerous people have chosen to express their opinions and tell us such – as if our labor and delivery has anything to do with them!) But the class was SO much more than “just” labor and delivery! We have talked about pregnancy nutrition, exercise, relaxation techniques; the stages and possible complications of labor and delivery; breastfeeding; birth plans; packing lists (#1 on the list for dad: mom – I’m not kidding, the book really said that!) and numerous other things that I can’t quite think of at the moment. Of course, not everything I have agreed with (shocker, right?), but you take the good and leave what you don’t need. What I am most appreciative for is that I’ve finally come to this realization: the goal of all of this is a healthy baby and healthy mom. And I will do whatever it takes, within my control, to make that happen. So, if that means I have to get an epidural or C-Section, so be it. I’d really like to have an unmedicated birth and who wants a C-Section? But if either are required for the health of our baby or myself, then so be it. I am thankful that I’ve been able to get to this place. It’s really helped to relieve some of the anxiety surrounding L&D for me and I’m really glad we chose to take the course.
We have also gotten some comic relief from the classes . . . though I’m not sure the instructor thinks we’re too funny! Since this is a “husband-coached” approach, we spent 1 whole class talking about the coach. As in, making sure the coach was well-nourished during L&D, rested, etc. There were suggestions for him to bring a cooler of food to keep his energy up and if he got tired, to lay in the bed with me! LOL!!!! I was seriously in disbelief about this. I think I made it pretty clear if Brook asked to get in the bed with me, he would probably get punched! The instructor did not appreciate my comments on the matter. I’m pretty sure Brook WILL ask me this now, but hopefully just to make me laugh.
30.5 Weeks
At 35 weeks - enjoying a trip to Target!